Masterbation problem..HELP!
btw im a virgin
and thanks
Answers: If the vibe is too strong for your sensitive clit, you can muffle it rather with a pair of underwear (or something thicker and softer maybe)... but what's wrong next to just using your own hands?
One entry you can do is check out this webpage:
http://www.coolnurse.com/masturbation_ho...
Read the page all the way through, and try some of the things suggested (including the "extras" associated at the bottom). Take your time (it might take a whole afternoon the first time), and a moment ago enjoy learning what feel best for you. Sooner or later, you'll have an orgasm, and they win better each time if you're one of those lucky girls who can have them again and again.
It can appropriate anywhere from a few seconds to a couple of hours to reach orgasm... both of these are unusual but regular, and anything in between is just fine.
Just past orgasm, you might have a feeling a bit approaching you have to pee, but it's not quite equal, and when your orgasm first happens, there'll be a very strong (sometimes intense and *powerful*), thaw out and sometimes tingly feeling that spreads from your clitoris to your vagina and then through your unbroken lower body. Then very quickly your clitoris, your vagina, your crotch muscles and your butt-hole will squeeze and pulse a few times while that passion spreads all over you.
During all this, your toes will probably curl, you might have a feeling like you need to hold your breath or resembling you have to breathe really fast, your body will want to distraught up and might jerk or shake or shiver, and you might make some noise (grunts, gasps, groans or cries) that you can't really control. You might "squirt" or "ejaculate" a lot of fluid from your urethra (don't verbs, it's not pee). The whole time, it's just something like the best feeling there is.
(Everything you "might" perceive or do above isn't always going to happen... some orgasms are much smaller amount overwhelming than just *very* pleasureable.)
As that feeling become more gentle and starts to go away (after conceivably 5 to 20 seconds), your whole body will begin to relax, and you might get the impression sort of like having a sleep... or like just lying in that and letting your mind drift.
Have fun and don't worry. Masturbating is normal and fine, and learning what pleases you sexually is good for you... especially because you'll know what to explain to your man about how to please you when you have sex..
If you Really want tips im going to donate them to you .
ok so maybe fingers dont work but wear your underwear and maybe mull over of something sooo erotic like maybe a man thrusting ... nvm lmao but really feel about that another option is to view porn ... i tried it , it turned me on or sit on a towel on top of your bed and ride it like rub your crotch ( forwards and backwards )
goodluck !
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im a virgin too. soo it hurts to stick 2 or more fingers up near for me. but if you have a shower that has a detachable organizer, put it on a kinda high pressure and let the sea hit your cl*t. you'll know when you get a direct hit!
hope i helped!! cya.
while your taking a tub open your legs and let the sea splash n your clit, and try using the spine of a book and move your legs up and down or try rubbing the side of your mattress or humping a pillow back massagers work
is it your first time masturbating?
or if you masturbate a little too recurrently,
i've heard it can get for a while painful
some women cannot get orgasms anyway,
don't verbs
you'll get there.
use ur imagination I would read out a teddy bear. Try that. Just try it..
I get about sensitivity. the good word is...it's not at all uncommon. In reality, many women find that the sensitivity also changes over the course of any one encounter (for me, for example, one minute you can hit it with a hammer and the subsequent, you can barely touch it,.no wonder guys think we're concrete to please)
here are some tips.
1. Try pressure instead of direct touching. A pillow (while lying on your tummy) can often get you started.
2. Since the clitoris have a shaft (yes, just like a penis), try stroking the "sides".
3. Be thoroughly (and I mean VERY) soft in your touch. Use lubrication, too. It's defining.
4. Don't expect to get much from straight-on vaginal penetration. There's be a lot of research into whether this does much. Answer: No, not unless there is simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris and/or G-spot (which is access vaginally, but not a straight-ahead shot).
5. Some women like to use the pressure of water, from, right to be heard a showerhead or bathtub faucet (getting yourself in this position can be interesting, but fun).
For me (and when I started), it be pressure and pillows. I've since "graduated" to other things but have found that this has never tolerate me down.
Good luck!.
haha anything phallus shaped is normally good! as long as it have smooth edges and looks pretty much like a dildo.
I know it probably seems atypical, i'm still a virgin too and I don't have the money to buy sex toys. As long as you makesure whatever you are using is verbs and probably plastic is should be fine? To be quite honest with you what I use is an feeble shower gel container, it's the same shape as any normal dildo, and some of my friends own even told me they have used the ends of hairbrushes before (not the spikey stop of COURSE) you could go for the cucumber approach but I myself wouldn't.. when you're using whatever you are using try and hit your clit next to the palm of your hand, as like the above poster said infiltration is rarely enough.
and I agree in the region of pillow pressure! great.
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