I push him out during intercourse... why?
Answers: Along with practicing Kegel exercises, you should also try to relax more. Instead of becoming distraught when you orgasm, try to do the exact opposite. Sometimes spreading your legs a little wider and consciously knowing that you involve to relax might cause you not to have an orgasm or it might bring a delayed orgasm. But over time your practicing will just become second nature and you'll probably own even more powerful orgasms than you did before.
But what you have described is impressively normal. You aren't the only one..
You necessitate to wrap your legs more tightly around him, thrust your pelvis against his as tight as you can, and even reach around and grab his a^^ to hold him within as much as possible.
Actually, I seriously doubt it's your vaginal contractions or tightness pushing him out.
You are probably clenching your legs tighter without realizing it. I've have girls do this to me before.
If you really seem powerless to condition yourself not to do this, have him tie you up to the bed - your arms to the top bedpost, and your legs spreadeagle to the bottom bedposts, and tell him to of late 'take you' no matter what.
Actually, you may find you enjoy that, whether or not it solves this distinctive problem!.
Do kegel exercises - to find them, try and stop yourself peeing next time you go to the bathroom. Those are the muscles. Squeeze them for as long as you can, a few times a time, to strengthen them.
If that doesn't work after a few weeks, then go see a gyno and give an account him/her about it. Sex should be enjoyable for both of you..
Relax your muscles. Practice kegels when your not have sex and they will help strengthen your muscles in that nouns. It's normal, don't stress it.