Embarrassing number 2 please assist urgent requirement to check some things
1. I get really dry whilst doing it, i thought most empire got wet is this common?
2. I only get pleasure when i do it extremely vigorous like my entire bed shakes is there any instrument i can get the same pleasure but do it slower if so how?
3. I enjoy started getting a weird pain inside my vagina and the with the sole purpose way to ease the headache is to finger myself or rub my self vigorously 'down there' is this normal? i wallow in doing it but to ease the pain i hold to stay up until 3-4am and i am no longer getting pleasure but as soon as i stop the pain comes back is this because i own done something wrong and aggravated something?
4. Is it normal that while i am fingering myself i feel approaching i need to wee but when i stop fingering myself i no longer feel close to i need to wee is this normal????
5. I bring back pleasure but i never get an orgasm why?
6. I get pleasure purely when i put pressure on my vagina from and object (I mean when i wrap my legs round pool steps or something is this average?)
7. When i finger myself sometimes my leg spasms or somthing like that is this conventional?
please don't be nasty
Answers: 1. yes it's normal. Try getting some lube to give a hand.
2. Just experiment and see how your body feels. Find what you like. There is not a soul way to do it that works for every woman
3. It's not normal if nearby is pain. Try not fingering yourself for a few days. It should help if at hand is a tare or something of that sort. If after a week you still have the pain, see your doctor.
4. It's completely common. The uterus and the bladder are very close ann many women experience the necessitate to urinate during sex and during orgasm.
5. It may take a while to get to orgasm. You might have need of more clitoris stimulation since most women don't orgasm from penetration alone. Just keep working at it.
6. It's mundane. You are stimulating your clitoris when you wrap your legs around something.
7. Yes, it's normal to feel leg spasms. During orgasm or in close proximity it, the body can go into convulsions (including legs)..
For the pain you should travel to the doctor cause thats the only character that can help you with that, and for everything else orgasm is a big entry. Every person may have one a different method or it may take something different for each soul to reach that point. Go to the md for the pain but stop worrying so much roughly everything else. Does your leg spasm all the time? If not then why verbs about it. I can tell you what #4 is. That is usually when you are inside and hitting your G spot. That happen to alot of women. You feel like you own to urinate. As for the rest, just sit back and savour yourself. .
Alicia...no need to ask so many question. If it feels good, do it. LEG SPASMS NORMAL..YOU NEED TO VERY GENTLY RUB CLIT WHILE BEING HARDER ON THE OPENING PART, ESPECIALLY THE BOTTOM. TRY IT ON YOUR STOMACHE, ITS A MILLION TIMES EASIER TO ***...i HAD THE WEE THING WHRN I WAS YOUNGER BUT ITS GONE NOW FOR SOME REASON. THE PAIN ISNT NORMAL TO MEBE ITS BEING DRY(LUBE) MAYBE ASK A DOCTOR IF OTHER GIRLS DONT HAVE THE SAME EXPERIENCE, BUT REMEMBER 90 PERCENT OF ORGASMS ARE ON THE OUTSIDE AREAS, THATS WHERE THE NERVES ARE. THATS WHY GRINDING FEELS GOOD. REMEMBER SOFT ON CLIT AND PUSH HARD ON THE VERY BOTTOM OF THE HOLE, OR AT LEAST THATS ME ALL GIRLS CAN BE DIFFERENT. LUCK! THE PAIN IS TOO MUCH TRY THE OUTSIDE AND ON YOUR BELLY, OR MOUNTING AN ARMREST..
When you shudder and shake you may be experiencing an orgasm. Not anyone wet enough during any style of "vaginal manipulation" can cause pain inside your vagina - give attention to something akin to small cuts from friction. I would be concerned about the deep dull pain that keeps you up until all hours. I don't construe masturbating is taking the pain away, as you believe, but rather is mask it by creating other sensations or simply distracting you so much mentally that you don't feel it as much. I would definitely consider visit your doctor. This pain could be a sign of something serious. Good luck!! well, probably the reason you aren't having an orgasm, is because you aren't doing it right. you hang on to saying you are fingering yourself-that sounds like you are concentrating on your vagina. women can never hold a vaginal orgasm-the vagina has so few nerve ending. start stimulating your clitoris instead-that will work quickly. and if you aren't moist, then buy some K-Y jelly- that's what its for. if adjectives else fails, why not buy a vibrator of some sort-it doesn't even have to be shaped close to a penis, and use it to stimulate your clitoris, i guarantee you will have an orgasm within 15 to 20 minutes, possibly even a few of them. all the rest of your "symptoms" are normal..
1. you involve some lube to keep your self wet I hold that issue at times try astro glide or slippery stuff.
2. Some women that is run of the mill to need to go in a hurry its like hitting your G spot so just relax and experment ( try a vibrator)
3. As far as the dull pain go to the DR. or check your symptoms on web md
4. and yes it is usual to feel that way your are stimulating your clit and g-spot customarily so go ahead and go to the bathroom in the past hand if you need to or at most minuscule try it helps. and dont press down so hard when rubbing your self.
5. Sometimes it take more than just fingering to orgasm its prefectly normal I am that channel my husband has to go really hasty in order to take me off so hun your normal. really try a vibrator
6.yes i.e. normal perfectly ordinary
7. your leg spasming is your orgasming and if you get kinda flushed like thaw or hot thats an orgasm