Did i only just break my hymen?
i be trying to itch it quick, and my hand slipped, and my fingers land in my opening. i feel a really sharp pain for a couple of seconds, but after the pain went away. i still own this feeling down there approaching i just did something though...does that mean i in recent times broke my hymen? i'm a virgin, and have never masterbated by inserting fingers.
and also, me and my boyfriend have tried have sex before, but as soon as he started to go contained by, i told him to stop. he didnt go all the track..and in fact i regard as it was like, not quite even in. i hurt really bad though...could that enjoy possibly broken my hymen?
and also...if your hymen is broke, will it hurt less when you loose your virginity.
Answers: It sounds like you've popped your cherry!
When you attempted sex beside your boyfriend, it most likely stretched it out, and since you've never masturbated by penetration (you've missed out btw! lol) it most imagined was broken the rest of the way by your fingers.
I broke my hymen when I be like 6..lol I remember it itching, then realising "Hey! I hold another hole down there!" then...OWWW!
lol
I be lucky, since my hymen was already gone, sex didn't hurt at all for me.
Just bring in sure you take your time when you do decide to enjoy sex.
Make sure you spend at least 30 minutes kinda teasing respectively other, let him kiss you in adjectives your favorite places (mine's my ears and neck..lol) make sure you're perfect and wet beforehand.
Use a condom, and make sure to hold some lube on hand. (try to get to walmart by yourself to get hold of some KY), because if you're not GOOD and wet, your first time WILL hurt, because of something called dry friction.
Also, because your vagina isn't used to have anything in it, you may want to try masturbating using your fingers for a few days before you enjoy sex.
Take your middle finger, insert it, and with the fingernail facing away from your stomach, make a "come here" motion, pushing upward onto the vaginal wall. If you do it regularly enough, and become familiar beside your body, you will find your "G-Spot"!
Last, but most importantly, make sure you are absolutely prepared. Because NOTHING sucks more than rushing into things, and regretting your first time.
I was WAAAAY too young, and not one and only do I regret not waiting untill I was more emotionally mature, but it wasn't fundamentally good!
lol
The more mature you are emotionally, the better sex will be, trust me.
The feminine sex drive is AMAZING in the fact that we are the lone creatures on earth that
1- have an organ designed for the SOLE purpose of pleasure (the clitoris)
2- Arousal depends essentially on the emotional and psycological attraction to her mate.
I hope this helps!
BTW, google is your friend! If in attendance are any questions you have, discern free to ask me!
Sheena.
i have to agree with meg, any insertion make you not a virgin. You might have broken the hymen, but you would more then predictable bleed. ALSO, the hymen is just a thin vein of skin, not a huge deal. it wont hurt an less when you hold sex. its your skin stretching that makes it hurt. It will still most likely hurt when you enjoy "sex" for the first time. You definetly broke it. I broke mine by accident too, only I be inserting first tampon. It hurt like crazy for a few seconds, but I get over it. Did you notice blood when you did this? Your first time will still hurt, you won't feel any stinging from your hymen, but the vagina stretching is what will hurt you, on a scramble of one to ten the pain is only a six though..
Probably did. He probably broke it somewhat and then when you went to mark it you finished the job. My hymen was already broken when I did it. The just reason it kind of hurt be because I was sooo tight and we didn't use lube.
So, no it won't hurt as bad for you if you really did break it. :) Definitely use lube. It'll relieve so much. I find it rather interesting to see that someone can accidentally "slip" their fingers into the vaginal opening...not!.
I focus the pertenent quesiton here is.
Did you bleed either time.
Bleeding usually = a broken hymen.
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I think you did.
And yes, it will hurt smaller amount..
if he went in,
your NOT a virgin... Wellthe I give attention to u did and if he's already gonein orfingered u ur not a virgen ok sorry not tryin to be mean ok : ).
I don't think you broke it..but if he go in then you are not a virgin...sorry.