Counseling oblige?

Awhile back (like 2 months ago) some really messed up stuff happened to me and I own been going to a sex abuse victims support group but I don't close to talking about what happen with strangers in the room. I am skipping the sessions immediately b/c my mom won't let me quit the group. does this get easier beside time, or am I just gonna have to treaty with this on my own because the group thing isn't working for me?
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I realize how you feel, it's not fun to talk roughly speaking sexual abuse in the past- it's with the sole purpose embarrassing and can make you have a feeling dirty and shameful. It won't get easier with time unless you find someone to articulate to about it, so make a compromise next to your mom. Talk to a counselor about it, but make it a one-on-one session, not a group session near guys there(if a male hurt you, then males are more credible to make you uncomfortable). And don't lie to the counselor roughly your feelings, or make stuff up at your sessions. I know you probably don't discern this way, but you did NOTHING wrong and have NOTHING to be ashamed of. Be strong hun and dutiful luck.

P.S.: To forewarn you, if you keep ignoring days gone by and hoping it goes away, you're only going to be more depressed. I've be ignoring it for almost 2 years until recently and I'm in a minute accepting help. It may even make you suicidal and be paid your life feel pointless and hopeless, so please adopt help. I know it's hard but you're unambiguously strong if you've gone to counseling so soon afterwards. You can do it.

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I'm sure there are some internet support groups. There are a lot of women out here who need to talk, but are startled. Maybe just look around online. You don't want to avoid doing this, it could ruin your relationships with men forever. Best of luck to you.

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omg thats so in a state i hope your okay. try to keep going it will be good chitchat about it and everyone has have the same thing start. goodluck ! :( <3

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You need to tell your counsellor that you want one-on-ones. And convey your mom the same. If you have have something traumatic happen to you, lying about it isn't going to relieve.

Talk to someone else you trust about what you NEED-- if you skip altogether it's bad-- if you go and flop it's just as bad.

Please, you deserve the right concerned of help. Talk to someone about it, and roughly speaking how to get the help surrounded by a way that you'll be comfortable with.

God bless.

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I'd influence that it's good to have someone to sermon to about it..if this group isn't suitable, it is so worth the effort to find another. I'm surprised it's co-ed. Ask the facilitator to achieve you in another group, and if he/she won't, get a different facilitator. Pain buried eat away for years, and really does tremendous damage. Please do a great and important item for yourself and deal with this in a minute. You are ENTITLED to dignity love and respect. Fighting for your comfort zone in therapy is a right part of your recovery..standing up for your desires.

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