What does it quality similar to when your "cherry" breaks?
Answers: The first time can be painful when the hymen breaks upon permeation. I hate the residence 'cherry'. There can also be some blood. Not all girls bleed and not adjectives have spasm. I never bled but there be a lot of agony.
The hymen is the thin membrane that sometimes covers the initial to the vagina if you're a virgin. I say "sometimes" because, even if you haven't have sex, the hymen can do a bit of a disappearing act due to an overzealous workout at the gym, horseback riding, tampons, and even fervent "heavy petting" beside your boyfriend. (It's not an impenetrable barrier, anyway, as it have holes to allow menstrual blood to escape.)
For some, the first few times might make you be aware of sore, as the vagina has be an unused muscle or even hurt, if you aren't properly lubricated, or if the guy is in a hurry, doesn't arouse you and your body isn't arranged.
Relaxing, foreplay, (oral sex, more foreplay – touching, kissing, etc) being fully aroused or better but, you having an orgasm FIRST or using a lubricant close to KY-Jelly or Astro-Glide can help.
Its throbbing, and canbe bloody. This is if they had to break the Hyman. When you "pop your cherry", or your hemen rips/breaks your should surface anything. It can rip by sex, masturbation, or for some girls, just everyday wear and crack. Mine is gone, and I didn't even know it was gone until I started masturbating. You shouldn't grain pain, and definitly no blood. If you do hold a problem like that, your should be in motion see a gynocologist!
Not good no business how much in "love" you are. By the 3rd or 4th time you are more relaxed and more comfortable beside your partner in that situation, it will gain better, but don't expect an orgasim right away, it'll take a while for you to carry to know yourself and even longer for you to able to recount your partner exactly what will "do it" for you. try masterbating some, believe it or not, that will help as far as relaxing and one able to relish "the sex". It hurts really bad. But everybody is different. When he sticks it within it feels approaching your whole insides are falling out and you can't only just breathe. But the pain go away in the subsequent fifteen to twenty minutes or longer.