I stopped taking birth control and anti depressants after 4 years...?
Answers: Nope, I'm a guy, but what caught my attention to your interview was you going sour anti depressants. Did you go rotten of them with your doctor knowing around it? My doctor tried to take me sour of mine, but we did it slowly by lowing the dosage each month, not cold turkey. I'm vertebrae on them again, but that's another story. Please be careful if you granted on your own to stop taking the anti depressants.
I've been bad birth control for over a year and my periods still aren't regular. Everybody's different, there's really no path to know for sure. Birth control AND antidepressants
Did you not like your lover ! !
Everyone is different
It's not such a fruitless problem you've got
Imagine how your lover feel right now
I can't answer your question (sorry!), but I do want to say that I hope you've come stale your antidepressant with the doctor's ease. Some ADs can be very tough on you if stop taking them suddenly! Be careful of a return effect.
As to your menstrual cycle, it would be wise to hold an OB/GYN do an exam and ask him/her about self regular again.
Take care of yourself! :)