How to not screw things up?
Also, do you presume she is trying to just dump me? Or one a girl in large school (who have never really dated much at all btw) is she a moment ago nervous? Would she dance out with me at adjectives if she didn't like me? How would you suggest that I pedal this evening?
btw I know this is the wrong category, but I thought this might get it to someone who in reality would care a bit all the drama surrounded by singles and dating category
Answers: From what you've said, it sounds more likely to me that she's anxious -- especially if your relationship has be getting more physically serious *or* more emotionally serious. (Girls can be scared of commitment too. ;))
It's *possible* that she wishes to break up, and yeah, it's possible to go out beside someone because they're nice and you feel discouraging about saw no or about breaking up even if you aren't sure you really want to be doing it. But if that's the shield, then if she does break up next to you, it won't be because you screwed up the evening.
It might still be reasonable to ask her where on earth she thinks you should jump with the relationship, but try to avoid seeming... pressuring? Make sure she know that you care in the region of her, but aren't going to push for more intimacy or commitment than she's personally organized to give?
ably shes a Senior. most seniors really need to focus on grades and college. Maybe she merely wants to transport a break. I doubt shes nervous if you guys dated beforehand. But be open next to her tell her how you discern and listen to her. A cup of coffee sounds. great ask her. 3 or 4 dates is not alot. I agree next to your girlfriend, you need to slow down. She's probably recounting you the truth and is still interested. Wait another month or 2 before asking the "where on earth is this relationship going" question.
if she asked to slow down, slow down, she clearly like you. but i think you should tolerate her know that you really care, she may be worried that you're simply playing with her too.