Why does it hurt/burn when I enjoy sex next to my boyfriend? (even when I use lube)?


My boyfriend of five years moved half means of access across the country, so we're in a long distance relationship. In yesteryear, whenever we were apart and I'd look in him, we'd have great sex.

However, the closing two times we've had sex, even though I've used a TON of KY, it hurts/burns. We've tried different positions but it's so mortified.

We just have sex and I'm burning/itching down there.

When I visit him two months ago and we had sex, it hurt immensely badly. I go to the doctor and it turned out I had vaginitis.

Please relief. Boyfriend is very disheartened because he thinks I'm not into him anymore.


Answers:    You stipulation to get rear to the doctor. It's very adjectives to have/get vaginitis again. In addition, regularly one can get a yeast infection following the antibiotics for vaginitis, because the flora contained by the vagina is disrupted (think ecology). Sometimes it can take a while for adjectives this to resolve, so tell the boyfriend to be merciful (and be inventive...).

Your use of the term "burning" suggests you might (also) own a urinary tract infection. Even a low-grade one can make sex miserable. I'd go and get it checked.

Someone else suggested you might be allergic to KY, or it might be further upsetting the flora. You could also be allergic to your soap, your detergent, etc. If you are in the US, you could try Basis soap--it's incredibly mild. Avoid scents, sprays, douches, etc.

Finally, within is a condition called "vulvodynia," which is a condition within which sex (and sitting and bike-riding) just hurts! I wouldn't leap to the conclusion that you have it, but you might look at the following website; contained by the middle of the page there are a set of suggestions around how to keep your vagina from getting irritated. I believe they're wrong when they suggest vaseline, but otherwise the advice is appropriate.
You might try another form of lubricant, you could be allergic to KY. i think your boyfriend have cheated on you and gave you a std progress get checked out by the doctor again
You might enjoy developed a yeast infection or vaginitis..go final to your doctor and at least build sure he hasnt given you a STD it could be the ky causing irritation. or, you might own some type of infection,like a yeast infection. its learned to go to see your obgyn

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