Why is he acting approaching this?

well when I am on my term every month when my boy friends friends are not around he is really sweet and will help me out beside what I need. But when His friends come over (we live together) He dose not support me out at all and he make fun of me with his friends on how moody and strange I am. Also when I ask him to stay with me at that times some times he dose but most of the time he say I can not I am meeting the guys at so and so. Im I asking to much of him at this time or at eney time. Or dose he freshly not care Why dose he perform like that around his friends.

Answers:    sounds similar to this is your first relationship that you have actuly lived beside the guy... If I am right this is one thing that you will swot over time...

It is safe to enunciate that 99.99% of men don't understand what it is close to for women around this time of the month and how it really feels to enjoy our hormones going hay-wire, the pain and other stuff that go with it that we can not controle (but men suggest we can... News flash to men "we can't").

So having said that you man is still erudition to adjust just matching as you are...

Before you moved in together you prob spent as much time together as you both could and this would of be great for both of you... But the thing is when you enjoy had satisfactory of each other you could both turn your own ways and go to your own homes... But presently you are living together

For us we get use to not going out or doing things around this time (for adjectives of the reasons of period etc). But we do still like the company, but for men it dosent effect them so they merely see us as being moody and dependent when it comes to us asking if they could stay with us and also most men for some foundation dont like person around us when it is that time of the month.

So this is what you will learn, 1: to love and respect that when it isnt that time of the month that he dose want to do things near you, shows that he cares by doing things for you and help you out, 2: that for alot of men periods freak men out because it is something that they dont comprehend and it is something that they do not want to understand and 3: DVD's and the computer can be your greatest friend for when you are on your period...

I would say to of late let him be beside his friends or if anything and you really do want to be around him when you have your period take some affliction killers and PMS supp's and ask if he wouldnt mind if you could budge along with him too... (because I am sure what he is going to be doing would be a hell alot better after staying at home by your self)

So DVD and injoy the peace and quite or ask some of your friends to come over for a chat or travel out with him near his mates
He and his friends probably consider because of the media that women are crazy when they're on their period. His friends don't know that you don't change much when you're on your time, but I bet your boyfriend doesn't have the self esteem to stand up to them and safeguard you when they make fun of you, so he instead join into their jeering. Also, his friends probably invite him to go near them when they know you're on your period to make available him an "escape" from hormonal "madness". Maybe you are more moody at that time of the month. Most women are. Maybe your moodiness is part of why you achieve so upset over these things. Just an idea.
Always a polite idea to hold an honest, frank and private communication that how you feel, vivacity will be so great if we become a little more sensible, loving, honest, simple and straight forward your boyfriend needs to stop putting up a front and acting similar to a jerk when his friends are over. that is to say not cool. he obviously does support about you but compassionate shouldn't only crop up behind closed doors. tolerate him know that it's not cool when he and his friends tease you. they're path overstepping their boundries especially if they are your guests. unfortunately, guys will never realize what it's like have a dreaded period every month, but you can consent to him know that you are going through it and to just backbone off near the jokes.
Well First sour I would approach him in a unflustered manner, Some guys of late have a problem next to being to "cool" one when they are around their buddies, Maybe he doesnt want to give the impression of being like hes Whipped!! haha Just consent to him know that you dont appreciate it. And that it really hurts you feelings that he make fun of you only when his friends are around. If that doesnt bear, then disagree fire with fire ya know. Invite a bunch of you GFs over and pound his ego, At the finale of the evening when he looks like he feel hurt express to him thats how you feel when he does that to you!! sometimes the best solution is putting the other soul in you shoes. I hope it get better if not hes not apposite enough for you!!

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