Looking for more ways to treat Vaginismus?
I am looking for some serious answers. This is a emotionally painful and mortifying issue enough for me to share, I really don't want the wise comments.
I would close to to hear from both women who have have to deal beside this issue (or friends of women) and men whose partners own had this issue. For the men, share some suggestion on how you got through it emotionally, ways you give support, and things you did to aid in your partner's healing.
I hold a diagnosis for vaginismus related to Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (also diagnosed) and I am undergoing intensive psychiatric therapy to help transformation my belief system around sex. I am going to get those graduate dialators from vaginismus.com next week.
My fiance and I enjoy tried inserting finger, and sometimes it works but with greatly of burning. It never works with a vibrater. We've be trying for about 3 years; I started seeing a analyst about a year and a partly ago on this issue.
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Breasts not dryed up, had toddler jan 10th?
Hi,
I'm very sorry that you enjoy this condition. I know how incredibly frustrating it can be.
Fortunately for you, there are several online support groups that you can bind. Start with primaryvaginismus in yahoo groups. Those women are sufferers themselves, so they will know how to relate and give you support and encouragement. Men don't really do as ably with "support groups" per se, but recurrently those women will connect their men with eachother. My husband have one that he chatted with regularly.
The dilators will be a BIG minister to - but you will have to be incredibly proactive in this psychiatric help. A word of caution (this includes fingers...) use LOTS of lubricant. The burning sensation can be relieved by you "good posture down" while something is being pushed forward. (This way that you push your muscle as though you were have a bowel movement...sorry) Also, breathe out through your mouth as you are doing this. Take it slow in the beginning and once something is adjectives the way contained by, just walk off it there (no movement), and relax your integral body, getting used to the sensation.
Best of luck to you.
P.S. Don't let anyone suggest surgery... that will one and only make it worse, and prolong your repossession. Trust me on that one.
Has anyone had breast decrease surgery? (in Australia)?
It is a serious problem and no one seem to know how to deal next to it or advise you, nor will I (I am a woman) I cogitate a therapist is a great concept and a loving fiance who is patient is apt for starting. I wonder, if you insert your own finger does it hurt too? What about lots of lubrication? What something like using some herbal drops to ease the tautness, have you ever hear of Rescue Remedy ? This is a wonderful herbal remedy for anxiety, when my morning starts and I feel approaching a nervous wreck I cart 4 drops and I am as good as bright.I am giving you a huge page about vaginismus I don`t know you will learn something unmarked? In any case righteous luck to you
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