Having problems with vaginal pain, hurts to have intercourse more than once in a day.?

I have only just begun have sex with my boyfriend. He isn't markedly long but is slightly wide. Because I aspiration not to become pregnant we usually stop intercourse before he climaxes. Invariably he comes rear in a few minutes wanting more ( I love my man). The problem is that when we start again I am extremely tender and have torment if he trys to enter me. I do not have this agony in the starting point only if we try again. I hold researched various conditions and vaginismus seem to be the closet to what I am experiencing, only it doesn't develop on the first try. Has anyone else experienced this and are there any suggestions as to what we can do almost this problem.
Thanks.
Answers:

My cycles are getting longer - problem?

Vaginismus is a disorder that prevents any type of penetration. You do not own this. Contact your doctor.

Gynecological Question?

The only style to know for sure if it is vaginismus or a more broader range of cramp in that nouns: vulvodynia is to get surrounded by touch with your dr to evaluate what the problem could be.

I hold vulvodynia and yes it does cause me a large amount of pain at times.

To revise more about vulvodynia check out: http://www.vulvarhealth.org

Am I taking too much Advil/Ibuprofen because of bleeding periods cause by my IUD?

This could possibly be becasue the outside of your vagina is too dry. Try using a lubricant.

Question girls ONLY!?

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