After Sex Is Hurting My Gf (HELP!)?

Okay im a 16 year old male. And my gf is 14 and we have be going out for 7 mouths now and we started having sex alot lately and she's on this thing surrounded by her wrist and it stop her from getting pregnant (99.9%) And after sex almost every time she is crying about a swore stomach i keep thinking the worse. I really need some give a hand. Im too scared to ask my mom and she will never let my gf back over so im hiding from everybody i know so i stipulation some real serious help.

Today, Just a few Min's ago, We got done have sex and she started to cry cause of stomach pain and then i put my ear to her stomach and she sounded similar to something moving but i think that's just the after sex. I dont know, We were both virgin's when we started to own sex.

More info about my gf:

She's kinda a big girl
She likes to eat alot
She is totally nice

But what do i do i involve some real help badly!

Answers:

14 is the legal age of consent here, liar above me :P

Is it "cramping" that she is experiencing? What you imagined heard was her intestines moving things about.

for one. im proud you are going out near a big girl?
serious though.
but, you guys should probably chill with the physical-ness for alittle bit.
get tests, its a sure shot opening to get an answer.

maybe she ate a gerbal Source(s): chubby chaser!

14 is too freakin' hasty

Where exactly is she sore? The stomach is a short time ago below the ribs. Intestines around the navel. The uterus just above the pubic hair line. She may be have difficulty with cervical brusing or uterine congestion/cramping after sex. Some women with endometriosis also have similar pains durring and after sex.

If you want minister to with your question, call a planned fatherliness center near you and ask to speak with someone. It might be good for your girlfriend to homily to someone as well. Better to resolve this problem for her now than make her surface uncomfortable about sex (or even afraid of it) the rest of her life.

She's only 14. That's a little infantile to be having sex if you're only together 7 months, but I'm not here to judge.

If it's hurting her it's probably because she isn't drizzly enough before and during sex, perhaps try using some lubricant to put together it less painful.

Also, try being more serene when having sex. Make it slow and passionate, as opposed to a hurried fumble.

Maybe her age also has something to do with it, and her body hasn't fully adjusted to sex on the other hand.

And make sure parents/siblings don't catch you doing it. 14 is below the legal age of consent for sex contained by every country, you could end upp being charged with statutory rape (sex next to a minor)

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