Urgent- Please Help! 10pts! Whay\t should we do?
to make it as simple as possible
imagine group of 6 friends having an AWESOMELY FUN time at a ssurprise Birthday.
Now 1 girl won't obtain involved, so me and someone else go and try and get her too. everyone was trying, but we found her first. She get completely sh!tty, and slaps/hurts one girl quite badly, with no apology. THen she type of runs away and gets upset.
She is always doing this. ruining it for others. She always expects someone to shift after her. But it just ruins it. SHe won't tell everyone what's wrong, een though we tell respectively other everything!
it causes secrets within the group, and purely puts a downer on things.
Pretty much, we are sick of her moods- we want her to get over herself and stop acting the way she is (kind of spoilt, b**chy)
What can we do?
Please help, its basically ruining things!
Answers:
How old are you guys?I would say it is for attentions still you never know she may own a real secret problem and is taking it our on you guys as she is hurting. Or she may be sensing that you guys don't really tolerate her be 100% of the group and she is trying not to let herself get to hurt.Don't wisper behind her vertebrae give her the confidence that she is a friend for live.Good luck
Don't include her next time. She'll get the message. BTW you can't force anyone into doing something against their will. That would be a crime. You don't want to travel down that path for the sake of fun or trying to teach her a lesson. It is not up to you or anyone to make that judgment. You've heard of Karma right? Source(s): Life.
tell her how you feel
Tell her to stop being a *****...lol
but maybe surrounded by a nicer way...or the next time she does that punch her in the feeler, that always works ^^
wow this girl sounds mean 0.0 haha, well you can go roughly this two ways-
1. be mean back to her and totally ignore her and be horrible and be the backstabbers
OR
2. try homily to her about it. get one or two of you and just parley to the girl. don't all crowd around her and pressure her or anything. if you've truly tried to be nice and talk it through with her and she's still acting horrible later try to distance yourself away from her. you don't need that kind of person within your life.
Either she didn't approaching the person that approached her or maybe she has stuff going on contained by her life ...you have to talk to her impart her a chance to explain...she's probably going through some stuff that she feels she can't confide to the group.... Or maybe she simply doesn't want to be bothered...you should talk to her alone ... Don't drag everybody there cause perchance she doesn't want everyone to know.... Tell her your complaints and if she's still being bitchy ...just don't involve her in anymore deeds... But you shouldn't be so quick to end the friendship... You should try to get her to sympathetic up.. Remind her that you guys are friends and there's no secrets between you..I gurantee you she just going through things and maybe after she will apologize for behavior
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