How did your dad take action?

I don't know my REAL dad I've never met him before but I have a step dad thats like my dad he's other been there ever since I was1 years old. Him and my mom broke up a couple years ago and I'm 13. My mom have a boyfriend who's really young and I've had my period for a while and whenever my mom bye's pad for me he looks at me funny like its not right for me to have a period! I don't devise of him as a dad but did your dad act the same? I needed tampons once and he wouldn't get them for me! So I used toilet quality newspaper! My mom didn't even care!
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i didn't have a word to my dad about that stuff mate ..... maybe that's why ..... your mom's boyfriend is just feeling guilty about being involved in "girl things" similar to that ....... he needs to grow up a little bit i reckon... fancy refusing to draw from you something as important as tampons........ i'd care if i were your mom .... and i reckon your mom did concern and prolly took him to task while you weren't listening...... no point her reprimanding him in front of you ...... you wouldn't hold much respect for him if she did hey ....... not that you do now ..... but squealing at him in front of you would have departed you with no respect for him at all.

yeah.

i would have squealed at him right surrounded by front of you though.

that's me though.

spontaneous and on the spur of themoment kind of gal.

peace baby

I can't really speak much about this, as the only father I have have is my real father. He usually just chooses not to get involved, but hes compassionate. Maybe your mom's boyfriend is inexperienced and kind of freaked out about the whole article, if he doesn't have any kids of his own, much less girls. You're better off asking your mother to buy that quality of stuff for you, and if she can't, go get them yourself. Guys are usually oblivious and would prefer to not have to promise with that kind of stuff.
He sounds like an asshole. I'm sorry that your mom felt that he be good enough to bring around you. My dad wasn't ignorant close to that. He was very awkward, but that's another embarrassing entity. Please tell your mom how you feel. You may have to repeat it a few times but do it!
Some men are just not comfortable with a woman's monthly ordeal. It is track out of their range of knowledge. It's not so much that he thinks it's not right for you to experience this, he lately isn't used to it. Maybe he has never had a daughter or step-daughter prior to you and he is still getting used to what it entails.
Well it could be 1 out of 2 things.

1) He's just not fully formed out by the fact that females get their menstrual cycle.

or

2) He's a real push.

Don't pay any attention to him.
From now and on, just rely on your mom and yourself roughly those things. Most men don't understand that women go through changes as ably.

I don't have a dad, so it doesn't apply to me.
Seems like hes disgusted... Some men are of late jerks like that.. Its unfortunate.
conceivably hes immature about the fact that immature girls get periods. but my mom dosen't show my dad, she just puts them within the bathroom. and we don't talk about it.


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