Touchy give somebody the third degree - abortion?

I'm married to the most wonderful woman in the world. I really think the world of her. Well, we've been married for a short time over a year now. Right after we got married she got pregnant. We be really troubled by the news because our plans were to have kids, but much then. I think she missed a few days on the pill. But regardless, we both agreed it was best to abort.

Then I get call off for a tour in Iraq. It's my second tour but I was simply as afraid as the first. I get back early due to individual hit by IED shrapnel. When I get back I find out my wife has approved to take the baby to term minus even telling me. I get to the hospital the second day after he is born and its devastating because I know we are unawares for this kid and its going to ruin our future. I asked the doctor if there was any method we could still do a last minute abortion. The doctor didn't even answer me. Obviously he was being a tremble just because I asked a question he didn't like. But my quiz is, why can't we still abort on the second day after he's born. I mean if we just caught this piece like a week earlier before he be born we'd have been in the clear, but suddenly after he's born she, as the mother, can't even abort? That only just doesn't seem right? I mean if we could have at smallest caught it before the placenta cord was cut, he would still technically been connected to her body and that should hold been her right to abort since he's connected to her body. What do you think? This has really get me upset.
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You are talking in the region of murdering your own child. If I were his mother or she ask my advice I would tell her to run her child and run as fast as she could away from you. You are the type of person who could kill your own mother if you thought it best for you. You are the most inconsiderate person I ever heard of.Cold and calculating you need some assist very bad.
You could disown the child, but even if you got the abortion a month before, the little one would still live, just be slightly under-developed. No, the baby is out. Abortions remove the child from within the womb. The dr. isn't human being a jerk, he knows it can't be done.
You could disown the child, but it might cause trauma within the mother.
Um. I think you already know the answer to this question. My suggestion, grow some balls and lift care of your beautiful child.....or give it up for adoption. You can't abort a newborn once it's born. ((stupid f*cking people on yahoo tonight))
are you stupid?
and who would want to marry you
you deff cant abort after there born nor a week before their born, you only enjoy like 2 months tops to have an abortion bc once your baby have a heart beat it;s a living thing

i hope your wife leaves you no offense

your a horrible person
Well the kid is born..so if you abort in a minute..that its out of her, that's murder. If you both don't want it then all you can do now is confer it up for adoption. But if she wants it and you don't then your sh*t outta luck, and i doubt your marriage will concluding unless you man up and take care of your wife and kid.

Its not her fault she get preg just bc she might of missed a pill or 2. The pill isn't 100% anyways, so sometimes having a kid on the pill does happen.

Hope I help and I hope you dont do anything you regret!

(im pro choice but after its born your hands are tied cuz im not pro murder)
well thats murder. either way within the womb or out its still murder. if u cant handle a babe rite now try giving it up to adoption it will save the babe life and probably yours. no offense meant if any
Is that a serious interrogate? I don't think you can legally abort after the third trimester- let alone after the toddler is born.
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it is ILLEGAL to abort a baby after the first trimester which is after 12 weeks contained by the pregnancy(after that u have no option but to continue the pregnancy). it have been illegal for over 20 years. put the poor kid up for adoption. thats all u can do. im adopt. its a wonderful thing. but come on its not like you're both 14 years old and simply CANT take care of a child.

and im going to be very honest and blunt. you're wife clearly didnt want to abort the newborn. if she wants to keep the baby agree to her and sign off parental rights if u dont want the child. but honestly i think u need to man up and be a father to this kid. seriously. grow some ball and be a dad dude.
Abortion after a party is born seems like..murder to me. THEY ARE ALIIIIIVE
Wow... amazing what kind of people we enjoy in this world. Do this kid & mother a favor and run away! You are a bad father & should stay in iraq.
This is a truly sick question - even if you think this if funny - you should be ashamed of yourself. I sincerely hope you are not serious.
But just for your ignorance - it would NOT hold been legal to terminate the pregnancy chronological the second trimester. So, your
theory is flawed.
If this happened for real - I hope she pack up and leaves you - and finds someone with love and compassion for her and this precious, innocent child. Because he doesn't need a A**hole like you for a father.
Abortion isn't legal after the first 3 months of pregnancy, because at that point the fetus is too far along in development. So no, it wouldn't own been OK to abort a couple of days before the child is born. The baby is a living, breathing, thinking, loving human anyone. I hope you're not serious.
I'm trying to be as open as I can about this cross-question. First, my views on abortion: I'm fifteen, and Catholic - not absolutely and completely by the book and I'm don't believe it all - forgive me, but I try. If I have an unplanned kid there are three options-keep it, abort, put him up for adoption. Right away I would think adoption. Catholic or not, forget all my beliefs, I'm human. And there's something nearly abortion that just rubs me the wrong way. You obviously weren't equipped for the baby, but having sex even under BC can bring in something that will change your life forever (as a complete miracle as well as a complete disaster). It's a babe-in-arms once it's conceived. Especially when it's starts growing.
I wish I could explain this better but it's a lot of thoughts to get out at once:) Basically, see the world through your wife's eyes, which should be jammy enough if you adore her more than the world. She has something growing inside her. Hormones are making her want to protect him. She, as a person, feel she needs to protect him. Letting him go would mean failing at that, as powerfully as all the guilt that comes with killing. Maybe you don't see it as slaughter (opinion is opinion and it's what makes the world special and it's own), but you HAVE to see it as killing the potential of a energy. Something could have been, That baby could hold grown into your son, someone famous, someone horrible, someone great, someone unforgettable. No matter what he would hold become, chances are he would have become something.
So far, I'm borderline agreeing with you. Abortion isn't for me. Adoption would be for me. But I still respect what you want to do I guess. But abort after birth? You mean murder? Because killing someone who can live on his own is murder.
Legally, abortions can't be performed departed the end of the second trimester. And no, it doesn't seem right to me.
Please put him up for adoption if you can't care for him approaching you want to. But don't kill him or hurt him. And if your wife wants him, let her enjoy that right. Obiously something changed between the time you talked and the time she gave birth to him.
They let you contained by the ARMY?
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Keep your hands past its sell-by date that baby! She kept it in case you died, is that so rugged to realize? That's why a lot of women get pregnant right before their men set off in case it's the last piece they have of them! Be thankful you are alive and got to come home to see this blessing and that your wife loves you satisfactory to want to make sure she always has a portion of you in this baby!
Basically, that would not be ABORTION, it would be MURDER. I thnk you have issues...i if truth be told feel physically sick
Wow.Once a baby is born you can't abort it. And you can not abort a baby 1 week before its born unless nearby is a medical condition. In or out of the womb its murder. The baby still has feelings inside the womb. And you are style beyond pro-choice. I really hope your a troll. If not your a complete idiot. I hope your wife leaves you.


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