Why did i own Virginity Pain?

I am a 14 year old female and 2 night ago i decided i was arranged to have sex. I was already really showery and the condom was lubricated. We tried it and it hurt me so bad we have to stop before he even "entered me". Why did it hurt so unpromising? Is it because my vagina wasn't fully developed? Answers?

Answers:    It hurts because little girls aren't suppose to be having sex. You are only 14. If you have an idea that that his penis hurts wait until you get pregnant and a 7, 8 or 9 lb tot comes out of your vagina.
I am glad to see you are smart enough to use a condom but they have be known to fail.
If you aren't old-fashioned enough to support a child you shouldn't be having sex. Period.
Sex will be around for a long time but your teen years won't.
Take some time to have a sneaking suspicion that about it. You are young, within will be others..
You say it hurt before he even enter you? Was he partially in and couldn't move about any farther because of the pain? If that is the satchel then it's most likely because your hymen is not broken as you are rather young. It could also just be because he be bigger than your opening was geared up for. Have you ever used a tampon (that even hurt me the first time). Have you tried using a toy? You are young and you may want to rethink if you really are ready for sex, but biddable job on using a condom. Good Luck! Because it was your first time it expected that you still had your hymen, which would be stretched during him attempting to enter you. Also, your vagina would not be used to such a thing, so, subsequent time you may wish to try do it extremely slowly. But as it hurts, get him to verbs out, then try again getting deeper each time. OOhh, remember to RELAX aswell. This is the guidance I got from a friend years ago when I lost mine. Good luck with everything.
Make sure you are doing it near somebody you truly care about and not a short time ago because you feel like you should. I'm glad you be protected.

xx.
Have you ever been fingered down there beforehand? because your vagina couldve just been really tight which would breed his penis difficult and hurt you a lot. I suggest you get fingered deeply before you try have sex again, so your vagina can bit by bit be able to take it contained by more. When you have sex for the first couple of times, it is going to hurt. The more you do it the less it will hurt and after it won't hurt at all. The first couple of times you might even bleed a little and explicitly normal so don't get upset give or take a few it..
well i think u should masturbate more consequently try to have sex again, then when u try to hold sex and it hurts again have him finger u then put the penis contained by and have fun lol It could be because his penis was too general and of course you aren't used to accomodating that as you've never had sexual intercourse in the past. Don't worry it should go away after you get hold of used to having sex..
Because your hymen is still intact. maybe it's because your too infantile and think about adjectives that stuff too much..
you might not have been relaxed. and if you be never fingered or anything yeahh that might be the problem too

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