Why are so heaps incredibly childish girls already have sex?

I've seen several posts today from very young at heart girls stating they were already sexually active... it really merely disgusts me.. they have NO idea how masses STD's there are, and how easily it is to miss them on to people. Unfortunately, I learned the rugged way.. and now I hold cervical cancer (HPV) I'm only 21.. and I contracted it when I was roughly 17 years old.. which is still way too childlike to be having sex.. Can anyone tell me why these extremely young girls are having sex?

And FYI to you young-looking girls.. condoms don't protect against all STD's... you can still contract muloscum, genital warts, and even herpes.
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to put some positivity on the topic (at lowest a little), even as a teen, i actually agree with this. it is ridiculous that girls are have sex at 12 and 13. i think a major problem here is the medium. i didn't even know what sex was until i was surrounded by middle school (probably because i didn't read magazines or spend like mad of time on the internet) but everyone else knew "everything". girls (and boys) shouldn't be exposed to it when they're 12 and 13.

now, i am 15 and i hold a boyfriend and it's love and it's been 7 months and we haven't done it but we have talk about it and it's still great. maybe i've lately gotten really lucky, but i think what a lot of teens don't realize is that you don't call for to have sex to have a upright relationship with someone. my boyfriend also happens to be my best friend.

another entry that people have said sooner, sex ed isn't very effective. at my academy, sex ed is part of biology which is required for freshmen. as someone said earlier, sex ed surrounded by bio or whatever class as a refresher is not a bad concept.

but now my question is, how do we inculcate kids not to do it? if we teach them early on, the model will be in their heads impulsive on. if we teach it too late, they could own already had sex and be paying consequences. i find sex ed to be a tricky topic.

also, i don't mean to say aloud that i have been an angel when it comes to sex. but i am axiom that it isn't the easiest thing in the world to be a kid, want sex, be capable of get it, but not take it. as ridiculous as it is to own sex at 13, one should look at it from their viewpoint. there is profoundly of pressure out there.

i actually hold a lot to say on the topic, but this is pretty much the conception.

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In the US - I partially blame the educational system. We enjoy taught abstinence just for the last 8 years and now it is catching up to us.

You can prepare abstinence but you cannot stop teaching give or take a few safe sex practices which is what the school systems own done. "sex is bad" isn't enough to protect children.

I also blame changing cultural norm (which the schools and parents haven't adapting to) and denial of parental teaching. For me - I learned deeply early on about sheltered sex (and stds), earlier enough so that when I get sex ed in high academy - it was just a refresher.

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yes i know frigtening isnt it?they havnt get a clue have they?my daughter is 13 and i dont know what id do if she be doin anything like that (most of the time shes listening to music near friends in her bedroom or on her playstaion or in the garden, as someone suggested they be playing with my little pony at their age , im only 32 and i be playing with my barbies at that age aswell.god what is this world coming too!! nowadays its kids have kids .

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well im still a virgin but people around me are doing it. I focus girls are really pressured into doing it these days especialy by there boyfreinds(but surely they do not diligence about there girlfriends feelings). Also girls and boys are brought uparound sex, porn etc and near really is to much pressure.

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I agree with you 100%. It is disgusting.
It is better to wait until you're married, that instrument when you lose your virginity is will be for that special person, not just some teen crush.
It's no wonder there are so many teen pregnances and STDs.

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I feel that the questions here represent a higher portion of girls have sex. As in, if you have a cross-examine, you come here. Many others aren't.

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i completely agree that these young girls are having sex WAY to young-looking... 12 or 14? thats ridiculous.. your body hasn't even developed yet, you know absolutely nought about yourself and arent mentally prepared for the repercussions of their actions.

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As a infantile woman growing up in this society I really don't think it is freshly education in this satchel, I don't think we can just blame one article on why girls are having sex early on within their lives. Theres tons of things that can take part surrounded by a persons life that will dictate what they are going to do subsequent before it even happens. School, peers, parents, domestic members, and especially their own minds.
I started having sex at a babyish age (No I am not happy about it nor am I bragging, etc.) Part of the use I started at such a young age (I feel) was because my mother never explained to me anything around sex and thought it would be a good idea a moment ago to learn about it from others. Growing up I thought it be the right thing to do and that getting that kind of attention be okay. I also feel that being sexually abused may own lead to me starting so early.
Many girls and boys are sexually/verbally/physically abused growing up, growing up confused and alone. This can front to excessive drug use, alcohol abuse and promiscuous sex. Not saying that it is right or trying to safeguard girls that have sex early on go, just stating my opinion. Tons of girls are getting mixed up beside older guys because they think they are more matured when they in fact are only just babies still trying to get through life.

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I construe sex is getting younger because boys are getting wiser and know how to trick girls out their panties makin them think that they are loved and that comes from the home, girls are looking for people to show them love that they aren't getting from home... I presume these boys need to be taught that sexaul conquests are not that it is adjectives cracked up to be... I blame the home, schools, and media... I am outlook really sorry for the boys and girls that are not really educated... I feel the lonely girls out at hand that feel that having sex make them more loved or more important are just foolin theirselves... I am praying on this one... and hold been... I found out the other day that Kids are even enjoy sex at my church in the church... We have to relieve these kids before we all be in motion to hell with gasoline drawers on...

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When I was at the age that several girls appear to be having sex here, about 12-14, I be still playing with My Little Ponies. Granted, by 16, I was making out beside my BF every chance I got. I really loved him and required to express that physically...but we were both way too young-looking. At 18, I was still too young but did it later. I don't know why young girls feel similar to they want to do it so young...I think it have to do with feeling approaching they want to be like sexy objects that they see in magazine and be liked by boys. Curiosity, pressure, boredom, being drunk, low self esteem, horniness. These are adjectives reasons why somebody so young might do it. Unfortunately, most of them are not emotionally or psycholigically prepared...and that doesn't even bring into the whole STD and pregnancy thing.

There really is no rush for it...

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