Losing virginity, did it hurt? did you truly procure any pleasure from it?
Answers: It did not hurt. I guess there be one quick instant of kind-of-pain that lasted for approaching a second; then it was fine. I get plenty of pleasure from it, although I didn't have an orgasm (I have never have an orgasm from penetration - I'm just not rigged that opening. That's okay, I have other methods ;) ). I did have to update my boyfriend to slow down so I could enjoy it more, though. :D
I think I have such a good time because I'd spent plenty of time figuring out what feel good to me before I have sex for the first time. I had been masturbating for oodles years, and I'd had boyfriend in olden times that I did a lot of experimenting with, although I never did anything that might seize me pregnant just to be on the safe side. I consider the key to enjoying sex is taking your time near it - just have fun. Don't be contained by a hurry to get a penis inside of you. There is way more to it than that, especially for women. It's okay to a short time ago explore each other's bodies, go slow, and chill out. Spend a great deal - A LOT - of time on foreplay to get your body prepared. You'll know when you're ready for infiltration. You'll just feel that the time is right. It shouldn't hurt afterwards, and if it does it definitely wil only be for a second and won't be that fruitless.
Contrary to what other people here are saying, you don't "progress" as you hold intercourse. Your vagina doesn't stretch out with use. Only having a child will for always change the shape of your vagina. A penis or a few fingers isn't nearly large satisfactory to make a permanent metamorphosis in your anatomy. Even the biggest human penis on the planet won't do that. Think about it: Your vagina is made to overrun a baby's head and shoulders through, and then step back to its normal size to protect the subsequent child that will grow in your womb. It's a VERY elastic organ, and it will unsophisticatedly always be what it's like presently, unless you have several children.
What WILL make sex better for you is FOREPLAY. When you are sexually aroused, your vagina with ease relaxes, opens up, and makes plenty of room for a penis to enter. You will fluently produce lubrication which reduces the friction and makes it surface good. But you have to procure yourself aroused enough for that FIRST.
If you don't already masturbate, I suggest that you try it. You need to digit out how your body works, and get to know what kinds of touching feel good, and where your sexual partner should touch you to get you really turned on. This is a very key part of sexuality. You need to know - really know - what works for you, and work next to your own body. If you do that, sex will be very enjoyable for you..
In my feelings it almost always hurts the first few times. Especially if your man is well endowed. However, you can receive more pleasure and be distracted from the pain if he massages your clitoris while entering you. Also, apposite foreplay helps. Example, oral sex, kissing, massages, etc. Last but not least possible, remember to relax. Hope this helps... It hurts the first few times, but after a while, the good cog comes. My first time I was in so much cramp, that I didn't want to consider doing it again. But after a bit that all went away, and sex be more so pleasurable than painful. The next time you want to have sex, tell your boyfriend to try to transport it easy. Don't let it panic you, cause it definately gets better contained by the long run. Good luck!.
honestly, my first (consensual) experience was the same. But I be 14..so I was quite "small." the sex will a moment ago get better better it takes a few times for it to start emotion nice.
I would suggest asking your boyfriend to either slow down, or you be on top so you can control how much he goes within and such (sorry this is in detail so much lol)..
i remember my first time. it hurt SOOO BAD and i didnt enjoy it at adjectives. and i bled alot for a couple of days...so i went a year without havin sex again, and when i finally did it didnt hurt as doomed to failure but it hurt a lil. you'll get used to it after a while. tell him to nick it slow the next time...or give you some oral in the past he starts penetrating. just cause sure you're not dry cause thats painful! yeah it hurt the first time but it get better. it will still probly hurt a little the next couple of times but not as desperate as the first time. make sure you tell your boyfriend to walk a little slower so you can adjust and wont hurt as much..
Okay, well the first time for my gf be painful for her too. As you progress, your muscles down there settle down tense and you will actually grasp pleasure from it. Make sure youre using condoms. The best is yet to come hun dont worry lol
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