Ladies, I call for some support.?

Last night my boyfriend and I had a really in-depth conversation about the fact that I've never have an orgasm. I've been sexually active for 3 years. I similar to sex but have never been competent to have an orgasm. He and I have totally good sex and I'm very in-tune to him, but I don't surmise I'm in-tune with myself.

While we were chitchat, he said that while we're intimate, my body exhibits all the signs of an orgasm, he even thinks I've come, but my mind just doesn't react to it.


Does anyone enjoy an insight on this? It's a very frustrating problem for me and I'd appreciate your help.



No emergent answers please.

Answers:    A LOT of women don't have an orgasm from sex and need outside stimulation (clitoral).

But if you grain out of tune with yourself, have you tried masturbation? Before you can ever enlighten a partner what you like, you need to find out for yourself and that resources trying things out on your own. (clitical.com is a good site for women).

The more frustrated you get the worst it will be, focus on the appropriate feelings and fun you are having next to him not the lack of orgasm. Try having an orgasm until that time or after (or both) sex from manual (fingering) or oral stimulation from him. Play up the foreplay..
i think its time for you to start exploring your own body. contained by my personal opinion, you need to hold an orgasm on your own - and know what it feels like to experiment next to your honey

when you have an orgasm.you know.
Try masturbating, that should help, it seem to me your lacking self-confidence. ummm.. u should just keep on to do it again ok.
Very few women can orgasm from sex alone. Toys are great especially if you don't like doing it yourself. It can be a fun to go to the sex shop together ; D Oral and brochure stimulation from your man can also help.

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