Ladies, how would you be aware of if your guy turned down sex to download porn instead?

Why would a 30yr old guy refuse morning shower sex (on his pretty girlfriend's birthday) to download porn instead, when they enjoy only been dating for 4 months? No argument beforehand, no sex that morning or the hours of darkness before.
This was a year ago, in a minute we only have sex once a week if that and one and only when I initiate it.
I'm feeling angry and resentful...am I out of line?
How would you be aware of about this and how would you deal near it?

Answers:    Hon, to be honest, if you've only been next to him for four months and he's acting like this you need to verbs from this relationship. Men like this never change their ways, they grow bored and it have absolutely nothing to do next to you. He may even be addicted to porn. I would feel hurt too given the situation but you have a choice to find someone that can love you rear in the ways you deserve. If the guy refuses to speech about this problem then manifestly he is emotionally unavailable. Don't hang on to the relationship if he continues within this pattern...there are plenty of men out near who will show you love back who love sex too. Good luck!.
sorry, i'm not a lady, but a bloke and i influence your man has a problem. fair dinkum, if he's spending time looking at porn instead person with you then he's get some issues that needs to be worked out. a little porn is ok, but it should NEVER be the primary entertainment, and esp not when his lady is hot and horny.

he really needs to receive away from his computer and spend more time with you. if not, after you're doomed and he'll be a sad old man bat off to electronic images until RSI stops him, but next what...

talk to him and make him take in that it's not healthy for your relationship that he would rather bat stale looking at 2D girls instead of making love to you, a real woman.

blergh! i don't envy you in this, but adjectives the best for fixing it..
I would dump his stupid ***. Personally, I feel like any guy who would choose that over his woman isn't worth your time. And the point w porn, it does become an addiction, and things that used to thrill him no longer do, and he'll keep wanting to get into weirder stuff, w or w/o u. I know profoundly of ppl 'choose' to watch together, but I think it's degrading. I'm up for pretty much anything (Normal anything; role playing, sex pos, etc) but singular w my Hubby.NO PORN ALLOWED!! If he truly loves and respects you, he will stop. if he doesn't, move on, find a real man, who will treat you close to you have value. best of luck to you. Sweetie, don't denote to be rude, but he's either got issues, not attracted to you, or getting it elsewhere..
It's given up the ghost. Move on and get somebody who enjoys mortal with you. Like the book says, "He's basically not that into you". i would get angery u have ur requirements aswell.
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