I cant appear to accomplish
what should we do??
Answers: I had the same problem until I get a vibrator. You may not like the idea at first (neither did I), but after you (and your partner) achieve over the initial discomfort or embarrassment you may feel by have one, it really does do wonders. And it doesn't have to be anything big and obnoxious: just something small and compact, no bigger than the size of your finger. Bust big adequate to hit your spot (and you know what spot i mean) while he's enjoying being inside you and you will climax. Trust me. It works. And don't grain bad nor let him surface bad about you need more direct stimulation. Every woman is different, and I'm living proof that you are not alone. Good luck doll~.
Try getting more aroused by manually or orally massaging your clitoris or g-spot back actually having intercourse.