Did any of the girls here in reality relish their first time have sex?
I'm waiting until I'm married and I want to know if there is any way that I can approaching it the first time.
Answers: First off, really it's SO great that you are waiting until marriage or a committed relationship. Remember that at hand is hardly anyone that regrets "waiting" and millions that regret losing it to the wrong person or too untimely.
I didn't enjoy my first time. It wasn't with a guy I loved, it be spur of the moment, I was uncomfortable during and sore afterward, and EVERYONE know about it once we broke up b/c the guy told all his friends. THAT'S dignified school relationships for you. Highschool relationships are B.S. and are never serious enough to stir to that level of intimacy, too bad I knowledgeable that a little to late. No issue how people pressure you--stick your ground and be true to yourself. Meaningless sex isn't worth the emotional belongings it brings or the risk of contracting an STD or pregnancy.
The key to great sex is most importantly doing it with someone you love.
Secondly, spawn sure you have both been tested AND are using proper contraceptive. Just because you're married doesn't connote you don't have to go for REGULAR [this method more than once] testing or use birth control. Don't play games with your time by risking an unplanned pregnancy or infection. Also keep track of when you're ovulating--unless you want and are in a financial position to enjoy a baby at that point--you want to avoid having sex [if you're not on HORMONAL birth control, regardless of whether you use condom or not] during your most fertile days.
Thirdly, you and your husband [esp. if he's a virgin too] should do a bit research on what exactly to do to make it comfortable, eventful, and of course pleasurable. USE LUBE. Regardless of whether you hold done foreplay or not. It's not "kinky" or "dirty" or something to be embarrassed about, it's practical, especially for your first time. It will sort everything SO much more comfortable and pleasurable for you. You won't really realize what a "tight fit" it is until you get started, so lube it up. The friction can be very bleeding or at least uncomfortable when you enjoy an intact hymen.
Fourthly, you both will need to remember that it's not all almost your own pleasure. Doing things to benefit the other will not only make it more pleasurable for the both of you, but also show mutual appreciation.
Lastly, and thoroughly important, don't hold back, physically, emotionally, noisily, idea-wise. It's always best when you feel comfortable ample to say or do whatever you want beside your partner, and your partner feels the same. Don't boundary yourself just because you've never done something before. Your partner should be surface safe telling you want he wishes, and you should feel the same. Along beside this--reassuring your partner and having him reassure you when you do something the other likes is also prominent. You'll know what I mean when you get to that point surrounded by your life.
But realistically, your first time will probably not be your best. But it will get better next to experience. Even when it is your first time, it's difficult NOT to enjoy it when you're with someone you truly exactness about and who is honors you and your body and your choice to reach that even of intimacy with him.
Hope this helps. :).
Well, I never have sex until marriage, but if you want to have fun, but not enjoy sex, you and your boy friend can foreplay.
Example: Where he sticks his finger up you instead of his penis.
For me, I fore played a lot until marriage, and I have a lot of fingers going up there, so by the time I have sex, I was used to things being stuck up here and I enjoyed it a lot!
Other associates may be sensitive to it because there vaginas haven't gotten used to foreign items up there. ;]
Congratz on waiting till matrimonial..
If they say yes, they're lying, and want to impress. If they say no, they're recounting the truth, and if they ever enjoyed it, as in have a climax, not just the feeling, it didn't begin for many years, or many, abundant times.
Sex hurt me until I was 26. I lost my virginity at 18. I still can be hurt at 38, the age I am now.
In other words, most men are egocentric, thinking about only their gratification, and don't know what the hell they're doing when it comes to sex, and pleasing a woman!.
Kudos to you for waiting until nuptials! STILL get an STD check for you and your husband-to-be just as a precaution. :)
Yes, it can be nice, but you must go slowly and take your time! In illustrious school, a girl can obviously get hold of pregnant but her body isn't fully developed for pleasure during sexual intercourse..
i had sex for the first time in middle arts school and it felt fine.
arspring sex feels virtuous in high institution. i don't know what kind of health tutor you are, but that is not true. and i think any illustrious school who has have sex with a meaningful partner will agree beside me If you really love the person you won't even be thinking about that, and MAJOR props on waiting till your married!!.
I loved it! I be so wet and happy and I loved him so much so it feel right! I did. He was wonderful patient and features.
Sure you can like it the first time!
nfd.
lots of foreplay,dont rush!!penitration at your own speed,full if ready,if you see what i tight-fisted,enjoy 1st time... Yes as long as he's easy and congrats on waiting (I'm plannin on doin matching ) :).
i like it at hischol feels better