Is have intercourse going to hurt my first time?
Answers: The first time can be painful when the hymen breaks upon infiltration. There can also be some blood. Not all girls bleed and not adjectives have torment. I never bled but there be a lot of affliction.
The hymen is the thin membrane that sometimes covers the slit to the vagina if you're a virgin. I say "sometimes" because, even if you haven't have sex, the hymen can do a bit of a disappearing act due to an overzealous workout at the gym, horseback riding, tampons, and even committed "heavy petting" near your boyfriend. (It's not an impenetrable barrier, anyway, as it have holes to allow menstrual blood to escape.)
For some, the first few times might make you touch sore, as it's been an unused muscle or even hurt, if you aren't properly lubricated, or if the guy is contained by a hurry, doesn't arouse you and your body isn't ready.
Relaxing, foreplay, (oral sex, more foreplay – touching, kissing, etc) anyone fully aroused or better yet, you have an orgasm FIRST or using a lubricant like KY-Jelly or Astro-Glide can backing.
It hurt me the first time. Really bad! And I bled rather. It's not until your 4th or 5th time that you begin to in reality enjoy it. Yes it is possible to hurt a bit the first time... it hurt me for about 30 second and then i be fine... if it is too painful afterwards stop and try again another time...
It didnt hurt for me the first time, it just feel like heaps of pressure. I ruminate it was worse for him than me haha. Just relax and use lube, manufacture sure you have apt condoms too. It helps.
